(02-05-2009 06:08 AM)Jenipurr ♥ link Wrote:Uhm.  If she's your mom, I'm pretty sure she's old enough to handle herself hun.
Even if you don't like the guy, it's her decision, not yours. Â Still don't know what you could have possibly found in the drawer, but that leaves to question what were you doing in THEIR drawers.
Thats a good question Jen. I don't even want to know whats in my parents stuff.
Sommie READ: Â found ....... in Troys bedside table there is only 2 things to do i need them to break up well its like retiring from my job ive been at it for like a year and a half!
well i need them to break up plan 1 put womens undies in bed if doesint work i have backup plan!
Jen: well i hate them thats why i was looking in there drawer and second he is the well i would not like to have a step sister or brother and third he is the worst person in the world!!
It's still not up to you hun, I'm sorry if you hate this guy so much, try talking to your mom before sabotaging their relationship. You can't always get what you want, that's part of life.
So you'd rather her be unhappy and feeling betrayed when he didn't do a damn thing wrong, just so you can feel better?
You're pretty damn petty and selfish.
Ollie when I was little I hated my step dad I but I got use to it. I never thought of something to sabotage their relationship. When you get older maybe you will start to like him.
Unless he's abusing you or your mother in some way, there's really nothing that can be done. If he's not hurting you or your mother in any way, the you should just accept him for who he is.
I am sorry if what I say is harsh and mean.
But, to be honest ... if I were your mom and found out eventually that you did that to me, I'd be so mad at you. Â You can't even possible begin to understand how adults feel about each other, and "because I don't like him" is not a good reason for you to be snooping through their stuff. Â I'm sure you'd hate it if your mom went through your stuff then did something hurtful toward you just because she didn't like what she found.
It's not all about you, time to realize it and move on hun.
(02-05-2009 06:15 AM)Jenipurr ♥ link Wrote:It's still not up to you hun, I'm sorry if you hate this guy so much, try talking to your mom before sabotaging their relationship. You can't always get what you want, that's part of life.
So you'd rather her be unhappy and feeling betrayed when he didn't do a damn thing wrong, just so you can feel better?
You're pretty damn petty and selfish.
sooo i get my say im the part of the family arent i? and when she finds out that it was never him i will haved moved out ohh yeah and my friends friend did it!
(02-05-2009 06:19 AM)Justinlikescookies link Wrote:Ollie when I was little I hated my step dad I but I got use to it. I never thought of something to sabotage their relationship. When you get older maybe you will start to like him.
how on earth did you get over him!!
I never said you didn't have a say, hun.
But that's just it, it sounds to me like you don't want to even TRY to get to know him or like him. Â Doesn't sound like you even want to consider your mother's feelings in this matter. Â You're feeling hurt and feel that simply because you don't like the guy that it's okay you're just going straight for the plan to destroy them.
You do have a say, but the decision isn't yours to make.